Natural Vs. Unnatural

Hey guys,

On my way to work - I realized something very INTERESTING about the topic of women and dating...and what it takes to break out of old habits, get out there in life and actually start approaching women.

I realized that many guys do not think it is NATURAL, or at least NATURAL FOR THEM to approach strange women they've never met.

I know I used to feel that way before I got the dating area of my life handled. When I was single, I would see a woman I was attracted to, clam up, become nervous and miss a great opportunity to meet someone new. But after failing hundreds and hundreds of times to successfully meet new women, I started to gain some insight into the whole process of social interaction.

I think it is now NATURAL to approach strangers and spark conversations. Even to this day, although I am in a relationship, I have never stopped sparking fun and playful conversations with people I come across throughout my day. I am not talking about going up and bothering people for their phone numbers. I am simply talking about extending a “hello", sharing a casual observation, or in other words being a more than average, friendly person.

BUT to become a more social person I first had to realize something...

I realized, that NO ONE was EVER going to give me the approval, or the permission to approach anyone. I had to believe that it was NATURAL for me to do so- whether I was scared or not.

Now if you also seek to be the kind of guy who can share conversations with anyone,
any time, it is guaranteed you will have to learn something too:

You will learn that HUMAN BEINGS ARE NATURALLY SOCIAL CREATURES.

You will learn that there is ACTUALLY a spirit WITHIN YOU that connects you to all people. It is that feeling of connectedness with others that gives you the permission to approach anyone you need to approach, to share what you got.

Even Jesus said "This is my commandment: love one another as I have loved you" (John 15:12). So get out there and share your love, a greeting, a compliment - anything! And show your community your love. Then you will never be lonely.

So, if you don’t BOUND out of bed every morning with ENERGY and IDEAS and the drive to
meet 100 strangers…don’t worry.

Learning to meet and make new friends is a process of growth and transformation. ONE DAY it can be as natural as apple pie.